When you get into this journey of self-development and self-love, you necessarily change. Your mindset changes, your attitude changes, your style changes, even your body changes.

And some people unconsciously will feel uncomfortable about these changes because it destabilizes the scheme they have about the people around themselves. It destabilizes the image they had about you. And now they aren’t sure if they know you. A fear comes creeping into their heart because… I mean… Who is this new woman in front of them?

They lose this sense of control over what happens around them and now try to find it back. Whether it’s keeping you around them more than before or saying things to make you regret changing don’t let that get to you

Of course, constructive comments and advice exist; it might be just that. But if it’s not, don’t let these people bring you down or slow you down from your journey to Becoming Her.